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The Reason Why People Suffer

Just recently, I was on a plane to Los Angeles, and a gentleman sitting next to me was crying, literally. I asked him what the problem was, and he started telling me how heartbroken and miserable he has become because his girlfriend who he loved so much broke up with him. This wasn't just a high school kid, but a full grown man, and I think he is rich too because he was sitting right next to me in the first class cabin. I didn't want to judge him out loud, but in my mind I knew he was just being stupid and foolish. However, I still tried to console him, and I told him that there are so many men who aren't as handsome as he is, and who doesn't have any money or any job or any degree or anything at all, but they still date different beautiful women. He turned and asked me, how's that possible? Then I said to him "It's difficult to become rich, successful, obtain degrees, and achieve other big things in life, but it's NEVER difficult to find a woman anytime and at any point in your life. When you can't get anything else, getting a woman shouldn't be one of them.

This message might not just be for that young man, but for you reading this right now.

Why do you make life so difficult by attaching yourself to people and things beyond your control? Why do you allow yourself to suffer because you refuse to let go? Why do you do that to yourself my friend? Why can't you just let things be as they are, and just move on with your life?

Your lover left you? Let go, move on and thank God because He saved you from something, and if your eyes were open you'll see it. And besides, you'll definitely meet a better person who will cherish and love you the way you deserve to be loved, and will never leave you. But even if they do leave too, let them go. I'm sure you can remember a time in your life when you loved someone so much and you thought you'll die if they ever leave you, but then they eventually left and here you still are today, perhaps happier than you've ever been.

You lost money in a business? Let go and move on because there are other better business opportunities that will come to you and will make you wealthier beyond your wildest dreams.

Your loved one died? That's very sad and heartbreaking, but let go because he or she is in a better place now and they wouldn't be happy looking down and seeing you crying and suffering miserably.

No matter what has happened to you, let go because you have no control of the universe or how it works; and most importantly, always remember that better days are ahead.

Life is meant to be lived in this very moment, and when you begin to do so, you'll be happy and free forever. But if you hold on to anything or attach yourself to anyone, you'll needlessly suffer until the day you decide to let go.

When you lose someone or something, it's okay to sometimes reminisce on the good times you had and cherish those fond memories. But don't be a pendulum that forever swings between joy and anguish; Happiness and sadness; only because you allow yourself to be attached to people and defined by things beyond your control.

You have to pragmatically deal with the world as it is, not as you wish it were. You have to work with the things you have, rather than complaining of the things you don't have or killing yourself over the things you lost.

Remember that Nothing lasts forever!

I wish you all the best my friends, and I hope you let go today so that you can be FREE and HAPPY forever.

Remain Blessed.

Cyril Obazuaye,
Founder & President,
IMIGRANT MUSIC INC.® USA
...Fulfilling Dreams of Immigrants!
Email: imigrant@imigrantmusic.com

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Comments

January 03, 2017 @11:16 pm
by — Folashade

This is awesome, in fact, every of your article bless my soul. May God continue to enrich you with divine wisdom in Jesus name. God bless you sir

January 02, 2017 @04:49 pm
by — Adesoye Lukmon

Happy happy Mary Christmas and new yearr may almighty GOD bless u for the part u take in the live of people amen. Pls i hav one question i want travel out of Nigeria to European nation in easy and short court way how can i make it in 2017 pls show me yha way good brother

January 02, 2017 @04:48 pm
by — Adesanya Olusola

The Best of all virtue they say is gratitude, having this in mind i want to thank you for your messages, the Lord bless you and perfect all that concerns you in Jesus name. You articles has really done a lot in my life and ministry, once again thanks and God bless. 'Sola Adesanya 08065792948

January 02, 2017 @04:47 pm
by — Adesanya Olusola

The Best of all virtue they say is gratitude, having this in mind i want to thank you for your messages, the Lord bless you and perfect all that concerns you in Jesus name. You articles has really done a lot in my life and ministry, once again thanks and God bless. 'Sola Adesanya 08065792948

January 02, 2017 @04:46 pm
by — Princewill Ajuonu

Hi friends i saw your text and am greaful happy and joy filled my heart the moment i had from you wishing me merry xmas and happy new year i really appreciate thanks guys but am not really happy from what am facing today i guess maybe i might turn around tomorrow into what i never what to become am really facing the hard times and pressure being pushed at me by my family is deep much and all i have left inside me now is bad thought (i have no friends to share my sad story with and that's why am testing you)please please please Prayer and help is urgently needed before things get out of hands

December 20, 2016 @03:19 pm
by — Kevin Rick

Sir please I need a working Visa, how can that be possible?

December 15, 2016 @10:44 am
by — Tony Oppong Boateng

not so long ago, i was deeply disappointed many times and misled by loved ones who broke my heart with lies and deceits , it was really tough to let go and even draw close to those people because they are the same people i met each and everyday in my life. What helped to overcome this challenge,it's simply by letting go, being positive to myself and making the best of me each moment of my life and it worked. i realized i could'nt change the circumstance but i can change my mind set and try not to expect more from others but i can challenge myself each day to do i can do best to have a fulfilled day.i can say to myself that i am a happy person regardless of basic chanllages i encounter in my life. This is possible because i simply let it go...keep focusing and still moving on till i reach my purpose.

December 14, 2016 @12:28 am
by — succo leonard

Thanks for the message, you are a life saver.

December 12, 2016 @04:55 pm
by — Ayorinde Grace

Is not easy to let go but with God all thing are possible.I got the message.Thanks so much.

December 12, 2016 @09:49 am
by — Ken Anazodo

Please i want to come to USA with my family

December 12, 2016 @09:48 am
by — Ajoke Ajayi

Thanks for d message, God bless.

December 12, 2016 @09:46 am
by — Emmanuel Asukwo

It"s true, one have to be happy because dwelling in the past is suicidal. in all situation we must give thanks to God because he knows our today and tomorrow. Thank you Bro. Cyril for this insight

December 11, 2016 @03:13 am
by — Nathan Abiola

Thank you so much, this message was directed to me straight. God bless you

December 11, 2016 @01:02 am
by — Mwangii

Thanks...great message

December 10, 2016 @05:29 pm
by — FREDLYNS DAVID UKERE

I have known how to LET GO some few years back when I heard the great speech of T. D JAKES that wonderful black American preacher and Orator, in fact his speech is a life time episode or memoirs that will always be in my heart and mind whenever I find myself in any difficult situation which I believe that wants to break my heart in a negative way. Mr. jakes said whatever or whomever you refused to let go will either drag you to the MUD or you are just trying to raise the dead because you refused to let it go. The purpose or reason of that person or thing in your life has has been fulfilled hence you need to let it go for good.

December 10, 2016 @05:04 pm
by — TINA.

please can I get an email address to send a personal message,

December 10, 2016 @11:16 am
by — Patience Fidel Oliseh

Beautiful write up

December 10, 2016 @11:12 am
by — Rachel Taylor

YOU HAVE SURELY CLICKED EVERY NAIL ON THE HEAD , YEAH letting go is so hard , especially when you think its what is best for you , strong points ill reread and be in prayer much , as its always such a pleasure to hear from you .be blessed and stay blessed.

December 10, 2016 @10:46 am
by — Vivian Tochukwu

I LOVE THIS.

December 10, 2016 @10:44 am
by — Ugwuanyi Jones

This is what i need right now in my life. you don't know what you have done for me now.

December 10, 2016 @10:43 am
by — STEPHEN

I ENJOY ALL YOUR BLOG POSTS. STEPHEN FROM LONDON.

December 10, 2016 @10:41 am
by — Rose Richards

Another great article from the great man Cyril Obazuaye. Sir You're changing the lives of millions of people all over the world. More grease to your elbows.

December 10, 2016 @10:39 am
by — Richard Jackson

I DON'T THINK THAT MAN IS STUPID OR FOOLISH. IT'S OKAY TO CRY AND BE HEARTBROKEN WHEN SOMEONE YOU LOVE LEAVE.

December 10, 2016 @10:36 am
by — Ramirez

I just joined this Imigrant blog few weeks ago and I am enjoying your messages sir. please keep them coming.

December 10, 2016 @10:35 am
by — Mohamed Muhammed

I enjoyed this article so much. I read it over and over and over again. Well written.

December 10, 2016 @10:34 am
by — Melody Odinakachi

Thank you sir. ur messages are always entertaining, informative and very good. pls send your messages to us more often

December 10, 2016 @10:32 am
by — Lisa Onu

I only cried in secondary school jss when my boyfriend and his family moved to another state. Since then, I have had different boyfriends but I never cry when they leave

December 10, 2016 @10:30 am
by — Kyle Brown

One Word: WONDERFUL

December 10, 2016 @10:29 am
by — Lolita

This is a wonderful advise

December 10, 2016 @10:27 am
by — Kennedy Elochukwu

I just lost a loved one. Please pray for me. Also Thank you for this message. It will help me.

December 10, 2016 @10:26 am
by — Jason Ontario

My gf broke up with me and she thought I will be crying and begging her to come back, but i didn't. Then after one week she came back and started begging me, but i told her I found another girlfriend already.

December 10, 2016 @10:24 am
by — John Scott

This message is for me, no doubt. I have been acting so stupid and foolish. THIS IS THE END.

December 10, 2016 @10:22 am
by — Chuks Mbegbu

I love this. Please send more messages to us every week. we are learning a lot from you

December 10, 2016 @10:20 am
by — Emmanuel Okafor

This message is for me. My girlfriend just broke up with me and started dating one of my friends. This message came at the right time. Thank you so much Mr. Cyril Imigrant. I am so happy I joined this group.

December 10, 2016 @10:16 am
by — Bimbo Odukoya

dis is happening to my best friend now. I have been telling her to forget about her ex and move on but she continue to cry and suffer.

December 10, 2016 @10:15 am
by — anawo friday

This is soooooooooooo true.

December 10, 2016 @10:14 am
by — Ali Musa Abubakar

This message if for me. Thank you thank you thank you

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